25 Quotes & Sayings By Cameron Dokey

Cameron Dokey is an author, speaker, and youth mentor. He is the author of the Abundant Life books, The Abundant Life Journey, The Abundant Life Patchwork, and The Abundant Life Love Patchwork. Cameron has spoken at many conferences including The National Speakers Association, Women of Influence Summit, Creating Passionate Change, The Heart of Leadership Conference, and The International Young Leaders Forum. He is passionate about helping young adults make good choices for their lives Read more

Cameron lives in North Carolina with his wife Kimi and three children.

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Unhappy memories are persistent. They're specific, and it's the details that refuse to leave us alone. Though a happy memory may stay with you just as long as one that makes you miserable, what you remember softens over time. What you recall is simply that you were happy, not necessarily the individual moments that brought about your joy. But the memory of something painful does just the opposite. It retains its original shape, all bony fingers and pointy elbows. Every time it returns, you get a quick poke in the eye or jab in the stomach. The memory of being unhappy has the power to hurt us long after the fact. We feel the injury anew each and every time we think of it. Cameron Dokey
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Love so joyfully and freely given can never be taken away. It is never truly gone. Cameron Dokey
Perhaps love and hope are one and the same.
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Perhaps love and hope are one and the same. Cameron Dokey
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A story is alive, as you and I are. It is rounded by muscle and sinew. Rushed with blood. Layered with skin, both rough and smooth. At its core lies soft marrow of hard, white bone. A story beats with the heart of every person who has ever strained ears to listen. On the breath of the storyteller, it soars. Until its images and deeds become so real you can see them in the air, shimmering like oases on the horizon line. A story can fly like a bee, so straight and swift you catch only the hum of its passing. Or move so slowly it seems motionless, curled in upon itself like a snake in the sun. It can vanish like smoke before the wind. Linger like perfume in the nose. Change with every telling, yet always remain the same. . Cameron Dokey
But fear is no fit means to measure anyone, for...
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But fear is no fit means to measure anyone, for fools have no fear, or so I've heard it said. Cameron Dokey
Everything is beautiful in its own way, ma belle, even...
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Everything is beautiful in its own way, ma belle, even if you have to look hard to find it. Cameron Dokey
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How much easier my life would be if I did not love you! I thought. How much less painful, but how much plainer. How much less color there would be in the world. Cameron Dokey
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You have worked to build me what I asked for all the days of our lives. Even when the task seemed impossible, even when it would have been easier to give it up, you did not, but kept on going. You have kept me warm in winter, and cool in summer. You have laughed with me, and you have cried. You have given me children who are almost, but not quite, my greatest joy. For the greatest joy of all is the way you held my wish in the center of your heart thorough all the days of our lives. That is where the room that you have built for me lies. Just as the room I built for you lies within mine. And in this way have all our wishes been granted. Together, we have made ourselves a home. . Cameron Dokey
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I had to cease to mourn what could never be and make the most of what was possible. And I would begin doing that by trying to mend the hurts of the past. Cameron Dokey
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But no matter what you do to postpone it, the future always shows up at your door. Cameron Dokey
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For surely a king is first a man. And so it must follow that a king does as all men do: the best he can. Cameron Dokey
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Men are quite unobservant, you know. They see only what they wish to see. Cameron Dokey
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...to be unkind because you are thoughtless is the worst kind of blindness. Cameron Dokey
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There is a tale... It tells of the days when a blight hung over our land. Nothing prospered. Nothing flourished. Not even zucchini would grow. Cameron Dokey
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Soon the grizzly was joined by a brown bear, a sun bear, and a beaver suffering from an identity crisis of magnificent proportion Cameron Dokey
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The trouble with being angry is that it not only makes you feel stupid, it encourages you to say stupid things as well. Stupid things that are hard to take back and impossible to erase. Cameron Dokey
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But even the most bitter fruit can contain something sweet at its core. A taste you would never have encountered if you had not been willing to endure the bitter first. Cameron Dokey
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Even so, [... in the silence after a winter storm has ceased to howl, in the soft whisper of a morning snowfall, in the way the moonlight sparkles over new-fallen snow, you can feel when she has been near by, ever searching. You can sense the presence of the Winter Child. Cameron Dokey
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Pick any time of the day or night and somewhere, everywhere, stories are being told. They overlap and flow across one another, the pull away again just as waves do upon a shore. It is this knack that stories have of rubbing up against one another that makes the world an interesting place, a place of greater possibility than it would be if we told our tales alone. This is impossible, of course. Make no mistake, everyone's stories touches someone else's. And every brush of one life tale upon another, be it ever so gentle, creates something new: a pathway that wasn't there before. The possibility to create a new tale. . Cameron Dokey
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A story can fly like a bee, so straight and swift you catch only the hum of its passing. Or move so slowly it seems motionless, curled in upon itself like a snake in the sun. It can vanish like smoke before the wind. Linger like perfume in the nose. Change with every telling, yet always remain the same. Cameron Dokey
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A home is a place one's heart creates and so recognizes as its own. A place it enters of its own free will. All others are merely dwelling places. Cameron Dokey
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That is what love is. A possibility that becomes a choice. A choice you keep making, over and over. Day after day. Year after year. Time after time. Cameron Dokey
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Remember that yours is not the only heart that may be wishing for love. Cameron Dokey
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I have not led an ordinary life, nor a life that would suit everyone. I took great risks, but because I did, I also earned great reward. I found the way to show my true face freely, without fear. Because of this, I found true love. Cameron Dokey